Find a senior roommate

Find a senior roommate

For more and more adults over 55, sharing a home with a compatible roommate has become a smart, practical answer to two questions at once: how to make rent or a mortgage easier, and how to feel less alone day to day. Roommates.com has been connecting roommates since 2003, and our matching tools were built for exactly this: pairing people based on lifestyle, schedule, pets, smoking, and what each person actually wants from living together. Whether you have a spare room you'd like to rent out or you're looking for a place where you'd genuinely fit in, we'll help you find someone who's a real match, not just the first person available.

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Why seniors are home sharing

Why seniors are home sharing

A deliberate choice, not a fallback


For thousands of adults over 55, home sharing is a positive decision, and the reasons usually come down to some combination of these things.

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Money goes further.


Splitting rent, utilities, and groceries can free up hundreds of dollars a month. For someone on a fixed income, that's the difference between watching the budget and actually enjoying retirement.

The house stays full.


After kids move out, after a divorce, after losing a spouse; empty rooms can feel heavier than they should. A compatible roommate brings life back into the house without forcing you to leave it.

Day-to-day life feels less isolated.


Loneliness in older adulthood has real health consequences, and most senior roommates will tell you the unexpected gift of home sharing wasn't financial, but it was having someone to share a coffee with, watch a movie with, or just say goodnight to.

How It Works

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Create your free profile

Tell us about your interests, your habits, what you're hoping for. Honesty is the best policy here.

2

Browse and filter.

Search by location, age range, budget, lifestyle, interests, and more. You decide who fits.

3

Message safely

Connect through our secure messaging; no need to share your phone or email.

4

Meet, talk, decide

When you're ready, always meet in person, in a public place, before making a decision.

Trust and Safety

Trust and Safety

Sharing a home is a real decision. 


We treat it that way.

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ID verification is included free on every paid plan. 


When you see the "ID Verified" badge on a profile, that person has confirmed their identity with us.

You control your information.


Phone, address, and full name stay private until you choose to share them.

Meet in person before committing


Bring a friend or family member along if it helps you feel more comfortable. Anyone who pressures you to skip that step, or asks for money before meeting, is not someone you want to live with.

Trust the basics.


Walk through the actual home. Ask about the lease, who's on it, and what's included in writing. Trust your instincts, and make sure it lines up with what was in the listing.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is it safe for seniors to find roommates online?

It can be, when you use a platform that verifies identities and gives you control over your information. Roommates.com includes ID verification with every paid plan, keeps your contact details private until you choose to share them, and lets you message safely before meeting. As with any major decision, meet in person before signing a lease, walk through the actual home, and bring a friend or family member with you if you'd like.

What age range counts as a senior on Roommates.com?

We use 55+ as the benchmark for our senior roommate community, in line with most "active adult" and 55+ housing definitions. You can filter your search by age range to find people in the years that fit you best.

Do I have to be retired to use the senior roommates section?

Not at all. Many of our senior members are still working full or part time, freelancing, or running small businesses. The 55+ filter is about life stage and lifestyle compatibility, not employment status.

How does ID verification work?

ID verification is free with any paid plan. You upload a government-issued ID through our secure verification partner, and once it's confirmed, an "ID Verified" badge appears on your profile. It's one of the simplest signals to look for when you're choosing who to message.

Can I find a roommate who can help with light household tasks?

Some seniors arrange informal help-around-the-house exchanges — for example, a younger roommate handling yard work in exchange for reduced rent. These work best when expectations are written into a roommate agreement clearly. Roommates.com is not a caregiver platform, and roommates are not substitutes for licensed home health aides.

How much does it cost to find a senior roommate?

Creating a profile, browsing, and messaging are free. Paid plans start at $6 for 7 days, with longer plans bringing the cost down to under $1 per week on the annual option. Every paid plan includes free ID verification.

Can I have pets or have my grandkids visit?

Yes. Most listings spell out pet policy, and guest policies are something to talk through with a potential roommate before moving in. Use the search filters to find homes that are pet-friendly or guest-friendly.

Can I share a home with someone who's not a senior?

Yes. Many senior roommate matches happen between two people both over 55, but intergenerational arrangements are common too, and often work very well. Set the age range you're comfortable with using the filter.

How long does it take to find a senior roommate?

It varies by city and how flexible your preferences are. In larger metro areas, many members start receiving messages within a few days of posting. Cities with the most active senior members include Phoenix, Tampa, San Diego, Las Vegas, Charlotte, and Orlando. We also have senior members searching in nearly every U.S. city.

What if it doesn't work out?

That's why a written roommate agreement matters. Discuss notice periods, deposit return, and how you'll handle changes before moving in. Both parties should agree, in writing, on what happens if either of you needs to move out.

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